Monday, March 23, 2009

Still Having Fun in Guangzhou

*******Red Couch Photos*********
















Is this a Chinese spin bike?









This is how the day started...so sweet!







A hazy Guangzhou morning (view from our hotel)
Lilly's turn for her medical exam.



















Some new (squeaky) shoes and a bowl of noodles after the tortuous medical exam






Anna with some of her fellow big adoptive sisters.


After a long night (Lilly was up several times. coughing, asking for milk, needing the potty), today has actually been a fine day so far. I got up early to go for a jog around the island (lots of locals out getting early morning exercise) and have some quiet time. We once again enjoyed the sumptuous breakfast spread, this time sitting next to the indoor waterfall. So much food that we haven't needed lunch the past two days. This morning, Lilly had her medical exam (a formality it seems, based on the minimal exam they performed). All 3 kids and I then did some shopping (got Lilly some cute "squeaky shoes") and got Lilly some noodles for lunch (her food horizons are expanding, however--halfway through her gigantic bowl of noodles she looked over at me and said in Chinese "meat?" Like, "hey Mom, where's the beef?" She then feel asleep after playing in her crib for a little while.

Our "red couch photos" are today, apparently a tradition in the China adoption community. Our group will get photos on the White Swan's red couch. We got Anna and Lilly each a blue silk dress for the occasion. We'll see how Lilly likes the photo op! By the time I post this, we should have the photos uploaded. (note added later: Lilly's blue dress didn't fit, but the pink silk noutfit I bought for my now high-school aged niece when I was living in Nanjing did fit her!)

This afternoon we will take care of filling out all of our visa paperwork, and tomorrow Jason and Kathy, our wonderful CCAI reps will take all of the paperwork to the US Consulate for the group. Once we get her visa tomorrow, our last formal event will be taking an oath at the US Consulate on Wednesday (Lilly's birthday). Then, we pack for home!

Even though we are tired and ready for normal life again, I have to say I am feeling quite spoiled, with such precious family time, wonderful food that I don't have to cook or clean up, a maid to clean our rooms and turn down the sheets each day, and time with a wonderful group of new friends to learn from and gain encouragement from (hopefully it's a two-way street in that regard).

Thanks again to all of you who have been following our journey, praying, sending e-mails, and posting comments. Miss you and love you!

11 comments:

Traci Brunner said...

Hi Amy, those children are just adorable. And I love the white shoes just as much as the red boots :) It is so nice to see how much Lilly is changing in such a short time. Love hearing about all the interesting and fun stuff happening with you all in such a far away place.

Donna said...

Great pictures! I remember feeling that spoiled too, it was WONDERFUL :) Tell Kathy the Clarks (with Lainey) say hello, she was our awesome guide! Enjoy the last bit of your trip!!

G. Alan Groop said...

Once again Amy is counting her blessings! It is a trip of a lifetime, memories that will stay with all of you. I am glad you will have spring break when you get back, you are going to need that time to adjust.(Except Tom probably has to be back to seeing patients.)Ooh that's going to be tough on Lilly, hey. (she does like her daddy!)I Know she loves you all.
Amy and Anna we liked Lilly's new shoes. The new dresses on Anna and Lilly are very pretty. The pic's were very fun to look at! Amy, Editor and photographer of O.A.A. amongst many other jobs!!! you are doing great! Catalina's keep those smiles on, just a few more days left! Looking forward to these last few chapters. Love the Groop's

Justin said...

We are looking forward to you coming home as well...although it seems Florida may as well be China. We can't wait to meet Lilly!

the mudder said...

Great pictures!!
Enjoy that pampering(no cooking, having your beds turned down)...I still remember it fondly!!
Sandra D.

Nili said...

Amy! I am loving reading about your adventure...Happy 3rd Birthday to Lilly...what a wonder-filled birthday present for a beautiful little girl...a family all her own! Enjoy your last couple of days...Blessings to the Catalina Five!!!!!

Tammy said...

Amy! I am so excited for you guys! We can't wait to meet your new addition! Let me cook you guys some sketti or something when you return. Give me a shout - I'll bring the girls by to say hi to Lilly!!

Justin said...

Happy birthday Lilly!

You guys are probably packing up right now. We will be praying for your strength to endure for another day or so for the flight home.

Say hi to Tad for us when you get there.

G. Alan Groop said...

G. Alan Groop said...

Happy Birthday to Lilly! I'm sure it was a fun day.
Good luck with all the flights home, hope all goes well.
Have a fun and safe trip back to Fl.
We will miss reading your blog everyday, it became a part of our day. I know it is going to be an adjustment for you when you get back.
I will come over and pamper you anytime Amy.
Thanks for all your work on the blog Amy. God Bless the Catalina's
Cindy

March 25, 2009 7:46 AM

Traci Brunner said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LILLY!!! Hope you have the best birthday ever :)

The Callender Family said...

Happy Birthday Lilly! Joyeux Anniversaire Lilly! Hope you enjoy this day with your new wonderful family that will now and forever be there to love you and take care of you. Can't wait to see you all again(the neighborhood is not the same without the Cantilinas) and finally meet Lilly!!!

PS: We will see you when we come back from MS, we are headed there tomorrow night for 2 nights to look at schools for the girls.

Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007