Sunday, March 22, 2009

Having Fun in Guangzhou











Sorry for the delay in updating the blog! We had a full day yesterday with the flight and getting settled in here in Guangzhou.

The biggest news with Lilly the past 2 days is that she has become quite the daddy's girl! All day yesterday, Lilly wanted nothing but for daddy to hold her. Tom had the pleasure of holding her the entire flight (she slept until lunch arrived) and pretty much the rest of the day as we settled into the beautiful White Swan Hotel on Shamian Island here in Guanzhou. Mommy was feeling a little hurt in the morning, but I soon realized that she was a happy girl, and it was relaxing to know that she was starting to feel a sense of trust and relaxation around us.

Last night we explored the island a little, had dinner at the famous Lucy's Cafe (a local restaurant that serves a wide variety of western and Asian foods), found Starbucks, and started scouting out prices for souvenir items the kids have been eyeing ever since Beijing.

We had a great night's sleep (Lilly was up to go potty only twice), and got to savor the White Swan breakfast feast sitting by the gigantic windows right on the Pearl River. This hotel is pretty much "adoption central," as all American adoptive families and some other nationalities have to come through Guangzhou to acquire visas for their babies. So it's very common to see mixed race families wandering around the island.

After breakfast today, we went on a city tour to the local Buddhist temple, an art museum, and an arts and crafts shop. It was a great morning, then back to the hotel for some noodles for Lilly and a (too short) nap. We are about to venture back out for some shopping before going to get Lilly's visa photo taken.

I feel as if we are starting to turn a corner with Lilly. Today, she has been willing to go to either mommy or daddy (still slightly prefers daddy), and she is much quicker with a smile and even some giggles. She is showing a lot more interest in toys rather than just foods, and it is fun to play with her as she stacks and nests the stacking cups we brought. She is also stqarting to look at the books we brought and color with the colow wonder markers. Still not much interest in stuffed animals or dolls.

We are also noticing that she is starting to fill out a little. Her face and legs are getting a little rounder!


Lilly reveals more and more how smart she is each day. Yesterday, Tom was fiddling with the TV in the room to see if we could connect my ipod to it, when Lilly came over and handed him the remote as if to say "here, Dad, this is how you turn it on!"

Jared and Anna are definitely nearing the end of their excitement at being away from home. Their tolerance for each other is growing shorter. Actually, truth be told, as much fun as we are having in China, the thought of being home in just 5 days is absolutely thrilling to all of us!! Too bad there is a nearly 24-hour travel day between Add Imagehere and there!


Thanks for all your prayers! Enjoy the photos and video.of Lilly using chopsticks to eat her noodles!




5 comments:

The Callender Family said...

Always great to hear from you! I love the video of Lilly eating her noodles and all the pictures! Thanks again for sharing them with us! Enjoy the rest of your trip!!!

Unknown said...

You guys are just wonderful and your newest daughter always makes me smile when I am around her. So glad to be on this journey with you

G. Alan Groop said...

Looks like Lilly is going to be teaching quite a few of us Americans how to use those chop sticks! Amazing how she gave Tom the remote!
We are enjoying the adventure, but can understand your wanting to be home soon. Although after looking up the Swan Hotel on the internet, Wow nice! I guess that tells me how tired you all are. Hope everyone wrote in there Journal about getting Lilly's passport! This really indicates the last leg of the trip! Good Luck and God Bless. The Groop's

Rebecca said...

Thank you so much for taking the time to keep us all up to date on your journey. It has been so much fun to watch you become a family of 5. I'm so excited to pick you up at the airport. Let me know if you think we'll need an extra car, Tim will be happy to help too. It doesn't fit a lot but between our 2 cars we can get you home! I can't wait to see all of you!! (eps. Lilly ~ sorry :))

the mudder said...

Glad to hear things seem like they are turning the corner.....it just takes time!
I know you will be so happy to be home! Can't wait to meet Lily!!
Sandra D.

Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007