Showing posts with label MCM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MCM. Show all posts

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Amy Successfully Completes Marine Corps Marathon!

This past weekend, I flew up to DC for the Marine Corps Marathon! All the months of training and mental preparation had finally culminated in this big day! I flew up Friday, having delivered Anna to school, Jared to the bus stop (in the rain), Tad to my friend's house, our new pet mice to another friend's house, Anna's bike to yet another house, and, finally, the kids weekend bags to the house where Jared spent the whole weekend and where Anna spent Friday night before staying with another family--with girls!--for the rest of the weekend. Whew! Oh, and then I delivered myself to the airport on time.








Tom and his parents met me at Reagan National Airport in Washington DC--Tom having spent the week prior at a conference in Leesburg--and we enjoyed a dinner of Spanish tapas in Old Town Alexandria. Then they delivered us to the Platts house in Alexandria, where we spent the weekend along with Chaplain (Chappy) Ken Reyes and his 20-year-old son, Brett, who was also competing in the marathon. It was so good to see friends from Turkey!



Saturday, our main task was to pick up our race packets, so after a quick cup of coffee we headed out to the metro to get to the DC Stadium/Armory, and spent some time perusing the myriad of running gear available for a price at the expo. Here is aphoto of Brett and me with our Marine Corps Marathon participant shirts we picked up that day. We then got Chappy and Brett on their way to Baltimore for a project, and Tom and I met up with his parents at Pentagon City Mall to browse and visit. We ate lunch at a French creperie (yumm!) and then they got on their way back to New Jersey in the rain.



Saturday evening, Auline had invited many folks from our days at Incirlik (and a few that came after our days at Incirlik) for a "carbo loading" dinner at their place--baked ziti and sausage and peppers! Yum! It was so much for to catch up with friends, eat great food in preparatino for the race, and relax (and not dwell too much on the task at hand the next morning!)



Brett and I finally got our gear assembled that night and headed to bed. I could not fall asleep. Once I did, I kept waking up. Finally, my alarm went off at 4:30am so we could get to the metro when it opened at 5am (we didn't want to take any chances on being late for the start, and had heard rumors that the metro filled up). We arrived in plenty of time for the start! In fact, we arrived at the start festival area just in time for an ecumenical prayer service, which was a bonus! It was chilly as we waited...and waited...and waited...



Finally, it was time to proceed to our start corrals. I lined up in the corral for the pace I felt that I could maintain, and in the midst of the thousands of people, looked up as I was stretching and saw right next to me my friend Heather from Florida who also had come to run! I was so happy to see her--and surprised that in the crowd we had actually seen one another!



At 8am, the race started. Took me 7 minutes to get to the actual start line from my start corral since there were so many people. The race was SO MUCH FUN! My pace started out nice and slow to get warmed up. The first 5 miles or so were mostly uphill, which I knew they would be, so I dind't worry about my pace and just relaxed and had fun. It was really crowded for the first 8 miles or so and it was difficult to speed up to the pace that I had wanted to hold. But that was a good thing for me, as it allowed me to get warmed up really well.



Making what could be a really long story shorter, the race felt great. I had some stabbing pain in my ankle,but ran through it. Other than that, I felt great the whole way and managed to pick up my pace gradually as the race proceeded. By the halfway point I could tell this marathon was going to be WAY better than the first one I ran at Disney in January! I saw Tom and Chappy, as well as Katie and Jason Roberson (friends from Turkey who have also run this race several times) cheering for me at various points along the way, which always helped me feel energized! I think I ran the whole thing with a smile on my face! I finished in 4:11:58, over 40 minutes faster than I ran the course at Disneyworld! Yay!


At the finish, my parents and Justin and Lita and their gang met up with us in Rosslyn and came back to the Platts for some time to visit and eat more ziti. It was so good to see them all and have a little time to catch up! After they got on their way back to Baltimore and PIttsburgh (and I took a much-needed shower!) Tom and I walked to Starbucks (yes, we walked another 3 miles round trip) to talk and relax!




Monday morning, we hopped on a plane home to reunite as a family (pets and all!) and now are getting back into the swing of things at home.


I am so thankful for those of you who donated to Love Without Boundaries in my name! Because of your support,I was able to raise over $1500! That is so exciting. It was fun to see the other LWB runners on the course. As I ran, I was praying for the Chinese orphans that my run would benefit, and thanking God for those who supported me.


No word on our adoption yet...I am hopeful we might hear something soon, as we are nearly 10 months out from the submission of our medical conditions checklist. The average wait time for a referral is 10-12 months from the time they have this document, so it could be soon. I will surely keep you all posted. Until then, thank God with me for a successful fun, for supportive family and friends, and for safe travels.


Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Back to School, Fall Routines, and Still Waiting

Wow--the summer seems to have sped by! The kids and I made the most of our days at home, and spent a week in early August doing a road trip to North Carolina to spend time at my dear friend Amy's family beach house on Oak Island. It was surely an adventure as the kids and I were stranded for 3 days in Georgia (just north of Jacksonville, FL) while our transmission was completely rebuilt! Yikes! So we explored many a fast-food playground, spent lots of time in the hotel pool, and even rented a car to drive to nearby St. Mary's--one of the oldest cities in America--and the Jacksonville Zoo, just to pass the time. Once the car was repaired we were on our way again and spent 3 days at the beach with the Silers--fun fun!


Fall routines are now officially underway. At least, most of them. As much as I enjoyed having the kids home for the summer, I have to say it is nice to now be returning to the comforts of routine and to see the kids challenged mentally, physically, and emotionally by the rigors of academics, sports, and other activities.

Jared and Anna started back to school last week--it has been an exciting week in our house. Here are some photos from the first day, including getting up in the morning, having breakfast, and heading out to start the first day. I think Tad, the pup, was a little bewildered by all the activity!

Jared started middle school--yikes! Lots of new things for him to adjust to...changing classes, having a locker (and a PE locker), riding the bus, new teachers, new kids, etc. So far he is LOVING it. On Monday when I opened his bedroom door to awaken him, he exclaimed "YES! It's finally time to get up!!" He has friends in all of his classes, and it was amusing for me to watch him during orientation last week as he and his friends compared schedules and celebrated when they learned they'd be together much of the day.



Anna started 3rd grade and was excited that she knew all but 1 person in her class this year. Her week this week has been good; I can see she will have a heavier homework load than last year, but I guess that comes with advancing through the grades! I know she'll handle it with no sweat. Anna sang a solo in church last Sunday--"You are my All in All" and did a really beautiful job. I will try to post a video here when I figure out how so you can enjoy her performance!



Swim team starts back up next week for Anna and me as coach. Jared is taking time away from the pool to run cross-country at school--a well-deserved break after swimming hard for 2 years here.



Bible study also starts back up next week for me at church--a study looking at Women of the Bible. I get to lead the week we will be studying Miriam and I'm very excited. Lots to learn from her.
I have made my flight reservations for the Marine Corps marathon in October, and have made a reservation at the Platt Place hotel (thanks, Auline!). I am excited to continue my training (last weekend I did 16.5) and to see my dear friend Auline and her new baby, Ava, in late October.



Amidst all of this, we continue to wait for our Waiting Child. God is teaching me SO much through this time of waiting. He is showing me how to rest in Him actively--not just in word but in practice. He is reminding me of the blessing of my dear husband and his God-given wisdom and patience. He is opening my eyes a little wider to the enormity of this change we are undertaking. I am still so VERY excited and will be SO happy when we finally get the phone call with a match with "the one" child that God has for us. I continue to look at the child profiles on our agency's website of the children they have been unable to match for whatever reason, in the hopes that one of them will jump off the screen at me and say "I'm yours!" to both Tom and to me. Until then, I will continue to praise God for His goodness, grace, and mercy, and will continue to work diligently at all that He has given me to do with my days.


We are really looking forward to some upcoming visits from Tom's siblings--Judi and Doug in early November, and Jer and Em and Peter for Thanksgiving! Our spare room is still "spare" for now, so everyone else is welcome too!! Make your reservation now!






Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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The Time in China

When Love Takes You In

Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007