Showing posts with label Lillian Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lillian Joy. Show all posts

Monday, November 3, 2008

Lillian Joy!!

We received a phone call from our agency on Friday, asking us if we would consider reviewing the profile of a little 2 1/2 year old girl named An Xiao Xue, who lives in foster care (a huge answer to prayer for me) in Henan province. I eagerly said "yes, yes! Please send her file!" and then had to immediately run to get Anna from school without any time to check my e-mail and look at her. It being Halloween on Friday, of course we also had costumes to put together and pumpkins to carve, so I had to wait patiently until the kids were happily and independently preparing for the evening's festivities so I could sneak onto the computer and pull up her precious photos and file. She looks like a sweetie! She is currently quite bald (looks like they shaved her head--not uncommon in the orphanages to help manage "bugs"), and, as you can see in her photos, she stands a little bit crooked, as she has congenital scoliosis.




I also left voice mails for Tom and forwarded him her file at work, but we did not have a chance to talk it over until late that evening after Trick-or-treating through the neighborhood and getting the kiddos into bed. I had been almost afraid to hope that this might be our daughter, not knowing Tom's opinion on the severity of her scoliosis and our ability to get her whatever treatments would be necessary to correct her spine's significant S-curvature. Once we got to talk, however, my heart was ready to burst when Tom said "yes, I think this is the little girl God has for us to take care of!" He just needed to spend some time on Saturday researching congenital scoliosis to make sure he felt confident this was something we would be able to handle.

So we have submitted our Letter of Intent to adopt little An Xiao Xue, who will soon be named Lillian Joy (Lilly or Lillie or Lily or Lilli--still working on which spelling we like!). We hope to bring her home before her 3rd birthday--which they estimate to be March 25th. There is a whole new set of paperwork and approvals to be done now that we have been matched with our daughter, so I am praying, as always, that the process goes smoothly and quickly in God's timing! The waiting seems easier now that we know who she is.





Praise God with us for His goodness and His faithfulness!












Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007