Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Friday, January 2, 2009

WOW! Trying to catch up on this weblog!!






















Happy 2009! Can't believe Christmas has now come and gone, and we are beginning 2009. We are excited that this is the year, Lord willing, that we will bring Lilly home to her forever family.

Let me catch you up on our comings and goings since November!


We were thrilled to have a string of visitors through November and December. After Doug and Judi's visit here in early November, Jeremy, Emily, and Peter joined us for Thanksgiving, which was lots of fun. Peter is only 6 weeks younger than Lilly, so it was fun not just to spend time with this funny and sweet little guy, but also to see what 2 1/2 year olds are up to in order to prepare us for Lilly's arrival! The kids had a blast with Peter here, and we managed to find all sorts of fun things to do--including the Air Armament museum, some hikes in the woods, a local playground, the beach, and swimming in our pool.

"Auntie" Gracie stayed for a quick week in mid-December, and helped me not to lose my mind as we frantically baked and made candies to give to friends, neighbors, and co-workers, wrapped presents, assembled fruit baskets, finished up last-minute Christmas shopping together, and all the other pre-holiday to-do items on my list!! She got to enjoy Jared's winter band concert and Anna's Christmas party at school. She got the quick and dirty look at my daily life (even sharing the kids' bathroom for a week--yikes!) and she still kept smiling all week long!







Finally, my whole family was here for Christmas (sadly, minus my sister-in-law, Ollie who was home working). We rented a large beach home nearby and stayed together for a week, celebrating the birth of Christ, enjoying time together, playing with the new Wii Nana and Pap Pap gave the kiddos, jogging, walking, and playing on the beach, and eating lots of yummy meals together (note to self, however, fondue night doesn't work with a table filled with 13 people, 6 of whom are minors!). It was nice for us to have a "staycation" and not be the ones traveling over the holidays. We recognize what a task it is to travel, and appreciate our family's willingness to come down here all that much more. We did, however, miss our time with the Cantilina clan this year...tomorrow we will join them via skype to open presents "together."

Enjoy the photos...if I were more tech savvy (or at least "blog savvy") I would know how to attach labels to each photo. But you're all very smart so I'm sure you'll figure out who is who!!


It has been a whirlwind few months, and we have LOVED every minute of it. All the excitement has helped the time to pass very quickly. Which is a good thing, since I might have lost my mind without all of these divine distractions!

So, the next major event in our lives--hopefully--is our trip to China to meet and bring home Lillian Joy. Stay tuned here as I plan to keep the blog updated as things unfold and as we travel. Just 3 approvals left to get, which will come one by one. Once we have our final travel approval (TA) will will likely travel 2-3 weeks later. Pray with us that Lilly would be kept safe and healthy as she waits for us. Praise God with us for her foster family who is caring for her now.


Happy 2009!


























Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

Chinese Word of the Day

The Time in China

When Love Takes You In

Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007