Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Finally, some new photos...
Friday, February 6, 2009
Finally, some new photos...

Here is Anna with some of her Barracuda teammates celebrating after last week's swim meet.
And here is Anna helping me paint Lilly's room...hope to have "after" photos of the finished room soon!

Here we are celebrating my 40th b-day at Osaka Japanese steak house--yum!!
And the rest of these are of Jared and his friends celebrating his 12th birthday. We initially tried to take a group of them paintballing, but when we got there the painball field had to turn us away as all of their guns were checked out. Yikes! What's a mom to do when she has 8-10 boys ready and eager to play paintball? We went home the the same eager boys played "Capture the Flag" in the woods behind our house for HOURS! They had a blast. We proceeded with the pizza, cake, presents, and an impromptu nerf gun war around the cul-de-sac, and rescheduled the actual paint ball outing for a few days later. They had a blast! Tom sported some pretty nasty bruises from all the fun! Jared has such a nice group of friends--he is truly blessed.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Getting Lillian's Room All Ready!
If only we would get some word on our LOA!!
Today is Jared's 12th birthday--Happy Birthday my big baby boy!! I can't believe he is nearing teenagerhood. He is a delightful kid...I am excited to see him before a big brother to Lilly. I will try to post some photos of his birthday party this weekend...actually it turned into 2 parties. We took about 8 boys to a nearby paintball field to play, but they had run out of paintball guns. So, we had to take 8 forlorn boys back home, where they played capture the flag for about 2-3 hours in the woods! They had a blast, and I kept saying they seemed to be having more fun playing in the woods than they would have had playing paintball. Such fun to see them romping through the woods, all boy, having the whole woods to themselves. We finished off that day with presents, pizza, a nerf war in the front yard, and birthday cake around the fire pit on the pool deck. BUT, since we had been unable to play paintball, the original plan, we decided to try again on Monday. Tom and two other dads--Carl and Kurt--brough the boys back to the paintball field on MLK day and they were successful in getting the equipment they needed this time! They played for most of the day, and came home so excited and buzzing with the fun they had had. TOm also is sporting some REALLY nasty bruises on his legs from where he got hit--wow. I'm so glad Jared has such a great group of good friends. Thank you Lord!
I will post a few photos of Jared's birthday fun soon!
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Family Life Rolling Along!
Jared is LOVING middle school. He has some really long days--running cross-country at 6:45 3 mornings a week, and staying after school on Wednesdays and Thursdays for cross-country meets and football band, respectively--so there are many nights he pretty much falls into bed exhausted by the time it's over. (though, I've realized, part of his exhaustion is due to the fact that after we think he's asleep, he is awake in his bed reading until 10pm!!) But he is enjoying it all... He had his first cross-country meet last week and did really well.
Anna is enjoying 3rd grade. She has a wonderful teacher! She is still swimming, and has given some suggestions to her coach (me) on how to make practices more *fun*. I'll have to see what I can do!! She is working hard at the piano in the mornings before school--an exercise we are finding helpful as she works hard on mastering some lingering reversals of letters and numbers at school. The visual processing required for piano playing is helpful in the realm of handwriting and visual processing of numbers, columns, and place values in math! She also has been spending a lot of time reading...and playing with friends! Here are some photos of her at the beach recently, when we were part of a surprise 25th wedding anniversary vow renewal for our dear friends, Steve and Denise Schaick. Anna was so enthralled with the whole celebrating, she insisted on dancing with Denise afterwards.
We put up a zip line in the back yard--I'll have to get some video footage and post it here--and last weekend the kids worked hard to build a platform for launching themselves on it. They hit a snag when, after building it, they realized the had built it 3 inches wider than any of the gates in our fence leading to the back yard. So this weekend we removed and then replaced a portion of fence in order to move the platform into its place.
We are hosting a small group Bible study in our home on Sunday afternoons, which is a great sources of encouragement, motivation, and accountability. Great group of folks! And Tom recently started playing his guitar AND his trumpet (!!) for the church praise band. It is so good to see him up there, and to hear that sweet trumpet playing!
We had a really good time celebrating Tom's 40th birthday. Thank you thank you to those of you who sent contributions for his birthday encouragement book--it turned our really well! The surprise party was lots of fun as well! Tom has been super swamped at work…he is acting as squadron commader for the next 4 months as his boss is deployed, so not only is he managing his own clinic, seeing patients, and teaching the residents, he is also running the entire medical operations squadron. Yikes! This week was a huge challenge for him…many times he came home saying “I’m in over my head…” but God has seen him through and he is energized by seeing God at work. You can pray for him that he’ll have extra strength, wisdom, humility, and perseverance through these busy months.
Just as life sometimes seems to be a marathon, I continue to train for the Marine Corps marathon. Last weekend, while away attending a Precepts Bible Study Leadership Training seminar at a nearby coastal city, I got up early before the Saturday session and ran my 20-mile training run. It was an incredible run--started at about 4:30am running along a Gulf shore island in the strong winds from Hurricane Ike. I ended up turning back and crossing the bridge to the mainland as the storm surge was bringing water over the running path on the island. The run went well (especially when the wind was at my back!!) This morning's 10-mile run was even better, as the temperatures are finally starting to fall a little bit! I get excited thinking about how lovely DC will be in late October! If you'd like to sponsor me, it's not too late! http://www.teamlwb.com/ I am over 85% of the way to my fundraising goal of $1500.
Speaking of Bible study, last week I taught the ladies' Bible study at church as we looked at the life of Miriam. What a lot of rich lessons to learn from her life! I used to think of her only as the older sister of Moses who helped to ensure her baby brother's safety as he floated in the basket on the Nile. Now I realized how much more there is to know about her and how relevant her experiences are to our lives!
We now have video footage of Anna's solo at church, which Tom will isolate and show me how to post here soon! I will also (hopefully) post some footage of the kids on their zip line.
God has brought me to a new place of peace in our wait for our little one from China. I know the call will come eventually, and I am content to wait patiently until that day (and then wait until we have travel approval...). We attended an international adoption seminar a few weeks ago at University of Alabama at Birmingham, which was a useful day of information, preparation, and thought-provoking discussion. The trip also gave Tom and me a chance to talk and visit as we drove (the kids stayed with friends), which is always a good thing... believe, me, the moment we have a photo to post of our little one, it will be up on the weblog and you will KNOW! You will probably hear me shout even across the many hundreds of miles!
Until then, I'll continue to try to keep you all posted on the rest of us and what's happening here... Please keep us posted on what's happening with you!
Love,
Amy
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Dossier has passed the critical review, undergoing translation!

Why Adoption? Why China?
Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.
We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.
Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.
Chinese Word of the Day
The Time in China
When Love Takes You In
Our Adoption Timeline
- Travel Dates--11-26 March
- Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
- Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
- Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
- Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
- Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
- Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
- Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
- Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
- Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
- Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
- Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
- Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
- Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
- Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
- Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007