Monday, November 2, 2009

A WAY long overdue update!




































































Happy Fall, Y'all! It has been quite a full and fun few months since I last posted any photos or really updated the blog and what we've been up to!

Fall weather has finally arrived on Florida's central coast, with today a lovely, clear blue sky, 72-degree day. SO happy to hot muggy weather (hopefully) has left us for a few months! Especially since we are just a few short weeks away from Thanksgiving!

Jared's cross-country season has wrapped up, Anna's soccer season has entered the season-finale tournament ("Go Red Dragons!"), and the first 9-weeks of school has concluded. Anna is busy with her violin, attending orchestra two mornings a week before school and taking lessons one afternoon a week; Jared is auditioning for the All-County Band in a few weeks...he better keep practicing that trombone! Winter sports will begin soon--Jared is trying out for the school soccer team, and Anna might go back to the pool...we'll see! The big kids, I have to say, are doing a great job of staying (mostly) on top of all the many things they have to do and are being a great big brother and sister to Lilly. They have full weeks and it amazes me how fast the days just fly by. Juggling their schedules keeps me on my toes, and I have to say I am a firm believer in CARPOOLING! Now I know why my mom was so happy when I got my driver's license way back when.
Lilly has been doing really well. She mostly enjoys her days at school, even though the initial separation can still be a little hard for her. Once she's there, however, she does great and her teachers report that she interacts approrpriately, seems to understand everything that is going on, and is really self-sufficient despite her petite frame. She did not, however, enjoy the class field trip to the Fire Station next door--too big, loud, and scary all around. She got to experience her first Halloween ever last weekend, dressed as a ladybug. At first she was a bit bewildered by the whole experience, but once she realized that candy was the end result of walking up to each house (yes, she learned to say "trick or treat" really quickly), she was eager to not miss a single house in the neighborhood!
We are excited to be spending Thanksgiving in Disney with our niece, Tanya, and are even more excited to be traveling home for Christmas several weeks later. It will be fun for Lilly to meet the rest of her extended family! And it's been several years since we were in NJ or PA for Christmas.
Tom is keeping himself out of trouble (mostly!) by spending lots and lots of time working hard each day. His job is truly an incredibly complex set of roles and responsibilities, and it makes my head swim to hear him talk of the many times each day he has to shift gears. He does it well, does it without seeking recognition, and still manages to come home at night to the kids and me with a smile on his face ready to take on whatever our evenings hold.

As for me, I had marathon-training withdrawal when I didn't run this year's Marine Corps Marathon (took place the next to last week in October), so I have decided to enter the Tallahassee 2010 Marathon (to be run on 7 February) and will do two local half marathons--one in November and one in March. A marathon sandwich of sorts. I am excited to be, once again, running my marathon as a fund raiser, this time for an organization called "Henan Kids International," which is a charity arm of our adoption agency, Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI). If you would like to sponsor me as I run, following are the instructions on how to do so:

There are two ways to go about this:
1) Go through the Henan Kids International's website. That way you can learn more about the organization and what they are doing for the children in China. You can click on the link pasted here: http://www.henankids.org/sponsor/sponsor.aspx which will take you to the Henan Kids International website. When you click on "make a donation," it will direct you to the CCAI website donation page, where you will designate a one-time gift, a yearly gift, or a monthly gift. In the space provided to designate your funds to a specific project, type in "Amy Cantilina Marathon Fund." This will earmark all of the funds for Lilly's orphanage, the Anyang Social Welfare Institute.

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2) You can go directly to the CCAI website's donation page via this link: http://chinesechildren.org/Charity/DonationForm.aspx You would then designate your gift as "one time," "monthly," or "yearly," and then designate the funds for the "Amy Cantilina Marathon Fund" in the space provided for a specific project.

I am excited to think that my running this year can directly benefit Lilly's friends back in China. Any donation can go such a long way for these children waiting for families! Feel free to send me any questions about how to do this, or if you'd rather just mail a check to Henan Kids International.













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Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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The Time in China

When Love Takes You In

Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007