Saturday, November 7, 2009

Update on Lilly's Spine

We had a followup visit with Lilly's orthopedist in Pensacola last week. They did new x-rays (which Lilly didn't enjoy at all) and measured the changes in her curvature since her last visit back in the spring. Her curvature is, not surprisingly, worsening as she grows. And she has grown a lot since we've had her home--8 pounds, 3.5 inches taller, 4 shoe sizes! Good nutrition does wonders.

Growth is good, but the worsening curvature is not. It has gone from 95 degrees about a year ago, 100 degrees in the spring, and now 115 degrees. Her two fused ribs on one side and the corresponding fused vertebrae and hemivertebrae in her spine prevent her left side from growing at the same rate as her right. In fact, the left side really can't expand at all. So, if left untreated, eventually the curvature would have severe impacts on her lung capacity, her cardiac output, and who know what else.

The orthopedist here feels that surgery is now indicated sometime in the next year, no later than a year and a half. After looking at her x-rays and examining her spine (Lilly didn't cry while he looked her over--WAY different than our last visit!), he sat down, looked us in the eyes, took a deep breath, and asked "So, where are your families?"

I knew where he was going. The surgery itself--likely to involve place VEPTR implant growth rods and separating the bone fusions--will be complicated and risky, and is likely to require an ICU stay and lengthy recovery. Being near family to help with the older kids will be key. When we answered "NJ and PA," he said "how about Children's Hospital of Phildadelphia?" (CHOP) He highly respects the surgeons there, and felt that their facilities offered the best care and best outcome for Lilly. I asked about Shriners in Philly (I've heard a lot about Shriners on the various yahoo groups I've found that deal with congenital scoliosis), but he seemed to believe that CHOP would be better. The dr. he referred us to, Dr. Dormans, is the head of pediatric orthopedics at CHOP, and two other surgeons that work there are world renowned for the type of surgery that LIlly is likelt to need. As I've done more research about CHOP and the surgeons there, I am increasingly comfortable and confident in this direction.

After returning home from Pensacola following LIlly's appointment, I had a call within just an hour or so from the staff at CHOP, and they were able to get her scheduled to come in for an initial consult while we're home for Christmas already! We are so thrilled they were able to do this--saving us an extra flight to PA and all the logistical challenges of finding care for the older kids at another time.

Our hope is that we can schedule her surgery for next summer, when the kids are off from school, so we can all go up, let the big kids enjoy time hanging out with their cousins and Grammy and Pop Pop, and Tom and I can be freed up to be in Philadelphia with Lilly.

Pray with us that the surgeons would have wisdom to know the best course of treatment for Lilly, for the timing to work out perfectly, for her health in the meantime to be good, for wisdom about whether and when to seek any second opinions.

Praise God with us for good care already, for her overall great health, for the fact that we are able to be seen while we're already up in the area.

Stay tuned!

6 comments:

Nili said...

Praise God for the details that he sees fit to work out for your good....I love it! So glad to hear of Lilly's growth and her path being made straight and clear for you and Tom. Thanks for the update we will continue to pray for Lilly and everything that is coming up for her.

quilt'n-mama said...

Praying for all the details of Lilly's appointments, future surgeries, etc. I love stopping by to see what is happening in your world:) It was great to meet you guys when we were in FL in sept.
We had a great time in DC for the MCM again, but missed seeing some friends from last year!
Keep us posted and we'll be praying!
Blessings,
Gayly

Andy and Amy said...

Praying for all of you! It would be great if the surgery could happen this summer when the other kids would be out of school. Keep us posted!

The Callender Family said...

I pray that the appointment goes well and that you can schedule the surgery in the summer. Keep us posted!

The Callender Family said...

I pray that the appointment goes well and that you can schedule the surgery in the summer. Keep us posted!

Traci Brunner said...

Hi Amy, It is so wonderful to hear that things are moving along with Lilly and her upcoming surgery's. Just think next year at this time how much healthier she will be. :0)
I hope you will continue to keep us posted on her progress and appts.

Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007