Sunday, May 25, 2008

State Certification is Complete!

Last week, Tom and I visited our notary at the Eglin Hospital (I told her we'd have to name our baby Kim in her honor after all the time we put in!) and had all our dossier documents notarized. The timing couldn't hvae been better--Tom's folks arrived Thursday evening to spend a week with us and Tom had Friday off. So, he and I took off Friday to drive all the paperwork to Tallahassee for state certification. Then, as planned, we spent a lovely 2 nights together in a local resort to celebrate our anniversary while Grammy and Pop Pop stayed with the kids and the dog. We had a nice time away and they all seemed to enjoy their time together!

Now, the final step in getting the dossier ready for submission is authentication. Tuesday morning, i will express mail the entire package to the local Chinese consulate to accoplish this last step, before the dossier undergoes critical review with our agency and then is sent off to China. Slowly we are able to tick things off the list.

Our agency last Friday did present something for Tom and me to consider--would we maybe be willing to consider accepting a little boy instead of a girl? Hmmmm....something we were thankful to have a few days away to think, talk, and pray about. We are still sort of undecided and have some questions I need to ask our agency first thing Tuesday morning. After thinking about our new child as our "daughter" and our "little girl" since we began chasing paper last fall, it seems weird to now perhaps switch gears. But we are challenging our thinking and our assumptions because boy or girl, we don't want to miss any of the blessings God might have in store for us with this adoption. We will keep you posted!

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Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007