Saturday, April 26, 2008

Waiting for That Last Piece of Paper

Tom and I made the 5-hour trip to Jacksonville on Wednesday afternoon, leaving Anna and Jared to be picked up from school by the Haynes family, taken to AWANA at church, dropped off with the Mignaccas to spend the night (on a school night--how exciting!), then picked up from school by the Mignaccas, and taken to swim team practice by the Garrants. Whew!! Oh, yeah, and we almost forgot to ask the Mignaccas to look after Tad, too.

So off we went, an overnight trip to lovely riverside and oceanside Jacksonville for an evening. We spent the night in the Omni Hotel near the River Walk, had a *very* late dinner at the American Cafe at Jackson Landing by the river (reminiscent of one of our first "dates" at the American Cafe at the Inner Harbor of Baltimore), had Starbucks for breakfast, and off we went to the tightly secured US Citizenship and Immigration Services office Thursday morning.

The fingerprinting itself was quick and painless...10 hours of driving for about 10 minutes of printing. But it's done. We actually ran into one of Tom's patients from Turkey applying for citizenship for his Turkish wife--what a small world!

So now we wait for that last piece of paper--our approval from USCIS to adopt from overseas. Once we have that, we'll face a brief furry of activity as we route the dossier through the various levels of certification, authentication, and critical review, before it is sent to China. Then, the hardest part of the wait will begin--the wait for a child referral and match.

As we wait, we have much to do at home--house projects, kids' activities, ministry, work, etc. So we are making the most of this time of waiting by keeping ourselves beyond busy with the many things on our plates. Life is good; God is good. And we are blessed to know that in God's timing we'll have a new daughter (whom we already love) in our home.

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Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007