Sunday, July 6, 2008

We're Logged In!

It's been quite awhile since I've posted a new entry here...let's see what's new...

Our dossier was translated and sent to China ("Dossier to China" or "DTC" in China-adoption-speak) on 30 June, and our "log in date" (LID) at the Chinese Center for Adoption Affairs (CCAA) was 3 July. So things are finally moving along! Now we just await a match with a child and travel approval! Could be anywhere from a few more months to maybe even another year?? Wish we had more definite time frames, but I'll be content with knowing that our paperwork is officially logged in and simply now wait.

As we wait, I have made the decision to participate in the 2008 Marine Corps Marathon in October, as part of a team raising funds for a non-profit organization called "Love Without Boundaries," which sponsors and establishes foster care and preschools for Chinese orphans. The work they do is amazing...you can check them out at http://www.lovewithoutboundaries.com/ and you can also check out my webpage there and even sponsor me if you like (click on "sponsor an athlete")! My goal is to raise $750. I completed my first marathon in January this year, and at about mile 15 I remember distinctly thinking "I will never compete in any kind of race EVER again!" But when I saw that LWB was putting together a team to raise money for these orphans, I knew that I had to sign up. How much more fulfilling to run for such a cause, not just for my own pride. So back to the training program I go. Another part of my excitement to run the Marine Corps is the chance to see some good friends and hopefully some family while I'm in DC! Of course, if the adoption proceeds on a quick timetable (God knows the timing...not me!) there is a chance I wouldn't be able to compete in the race...but I will still happily raise funds for LWB.

We are enjoying our summer, spending some lazy days at the beach, some fun-filled days at Big Kahunas, a local water park, and getting some projects done around the house. Jared starts cross-country pre-season training tomorrow! We have had some busy weeks recently with our home swim meet and an out-of-town swim meet that I coached solo.

3 comments:

The Callender Family said...

That is great news Amy! Can't wait till you get 'matched' to a little one...
Anne

Bryan and Tammy said...

Hope you don't mind me checking out your blog. I am a childhood friend of Polly Wilson and saw your comment on her blog. We are in the middle of the paper chase for our own Chinese adoption made a bit longer because we live in China. It will be fun to continue to hear about your journey. Congrats on being near the end! Thanks for telling your story. Tammy

Lauren said...

hey amy! i am happy to see you have a blog! i didn't know you were adopting, that is great to hear. i will be praying for you and your family during this journey. best wishes.

lauren tomaschko

Why Adoption? Why China?

I'm sure that many of you, when you learned that Tom and I were pursuing adoption of a little girl from China, wondered "why?!" We may have taken some of you by surprise, and we thought it might be nice to share some of our thinking about this journey we are undertaking.

Adoption is something that, even from the earliest years of our marriage, we talked about as "maybe someday." The idea of adoption is appealing to us for many reasons. As Christians, we are adopted by God as his children through faith in Jesus. Adoption allows us to provide a child with the needed love, warmth, and financial resources we have been blessed with as a family. Finally, adoption allows us to add to our family at a time when our biological children are old enough to be more self-sufficient, and we are in a position financially to be able to welcome a child into our family in this way. What we hope to gain is an additional family member to love and learn from, and an opportunity to share the joy and love of our family.

We recognize that an adoption will bring unique parenting challenges to our family--especially since we are considering a child with special needs--and it is likely to put unique stresses on our family in a variety of ways. We are grateful for Tom's medical knowledge and for the great medical coverage we get through Tom's Air Force career, and we look forward to providing a forever family for a child whose medical needs might make it more difficult for another family to take on.

Finally, why China? My love for China, the Chinese language, and the Chinese people made China the natural choice. It was never really even a consideration whether to go with a domestic adoption or international; China was simply the natural choice that we immediately pursued, especially since there are so many children in China that need a forever family.

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Our Adoption Timeline

  • Travel Dates--11-26 March
  • Swearing In Ceremony at Consulate--25 March (Lilly's 3rd Birthday!)
  • Consulate Appointment (CA)--24 March
  • Travel Approval (TA)--19 February 2009
  • Received Letter of Approval (LOA)--22 January 2009
  • Received Pre-Approval (PA)--25 November
  • Submitted Letter of Intent (LOI) to adopt An Xiao Xue, soon to be named Lillian Joy Xiao Xue, 1 November (logged in at CCAA 21 November)
  • Referral Call from CCAI asking us to consider An Xiao Xue's profile--31 October
  • Dossier Log-in-Date (LID) 3 July 2008
  • Dossier to China (DTC)--June 27 2008
  • Dossier Submitted to CCAI--June 2008
  • Fingerprinted at USCIS Jacksonville--April 2008
  • Application Approval ("We're Pregnant!") January 2008
  • Submitted Adoption Application and 3 References--December 2007
  • Requested Application from Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) --November 2007
  • Decided to Investigate Agencies--October 2007